How to attract women

Life is such a strange thing, so many contradictions to deal with. One does not know where to look as rejection and failure stare you in the face. You are either hot or cold, most of the time you are neither.

Dressed to kill, you approach the mirror, and feel as if you are gazing into some kind of twilight zone, Only in full living 3D color. Let's just say "you're lukewarm" as you stagger through the maze of bars and clubs.

Perhaps there is too much alcohol in your aftershave... But, deep down you know what drives you, it's the same thing that drives the entire race. You need a mate.

As a man you wonder, how do you get women interested in you. They don't teach that kind of stuff in school, How to pass the most important examination of your life. Passing on your genes to the next generation.

There is no dough about it, sex is a big part of this problem. Does love lead to sex, or sex lead to love, such questions are best left to lovers. After all drink raises passion levels past the usual threshold. The only sure thing we know is that attraction is the beginning of the mating ritual. But it involves a lot more than a casual encounter. Women require a commitment to ensure their offspring achieve the best possible start in life.

When you give your promise to your lady, she will gives hers to you. After all your offspring, which will be the next generation requires food and shelter. You will provide it, and feel privilege to take on the burden of responsibility.

But I am drifting away from the main topic. Attracting the opposite sex.
There is no silver bullet. Women do not to trust single men, they view them with suspicion because they appear so desperate. Desperation always rings alarm bell, as any experience banker will tell you.

Desperation, in other words, begets desperation.
Finally through sheer chance our hero finds someone interested in him. His confidence rockets to the moon, and now struts across the floor to the bar.

Women look at him and his new girlfriend and think, they are better looking than her. Their must be something special about this guy that they have overlooked. His new confidence is so attractive. Now that he is "not single," women find him almost irresistible.
Where does this leave our hero? No lesson is learned, he will believe it's his sheer "Animal attraction" that has gained his success. Or, possible his new aftershave.

Fact is our hero could have avoided much of the stress and failure of the the scene I just described. All he had to do was followed a few basic rules.

Develop self confidence by simply listening more and talking less. It's good for your reputation. Show a interest in what the other persons is saying. Talking to the people you are not attracted to, is a bonus. They usually know people you find attractive, and you will get to know them too. In fact, you may discover a deeper appreciation and attraction for these ladies you have overlooked in the past. Keep fit, learn to dance and develop a sense of humor.

Always be polite and sincere. And one day when you look in the mirror, you will see a gentleman standing there.